Spirit is something which is irreplaceable and most often under rated! I have a medical theory linked to cheering your team during a game! I personally feel cheering does help.. Yes players do get distracted by the pretty, barely dressed women dancing their way to glory (I am talking about NFL, NBA etc not our lost souls in the IPL) that got me thinking that cheering / motivating does really helps, quite contrary to my beliefs till very recently!
So coming back to my theory.. We all are pretty aware that brain is the super computer that handles / manages the body and it's vital parts! Senses are decoded and acted upon, reacted upon by the brain which sends signal through its nervous system. And we are all aware that white blood cells are the ones which fight foreign bodies and help us survive illness.
Now assume white blood cells as the army that fights the enemies! And my theory assumes that these white blood cells can fend off almost anything if cheered and motivated. And that cheering / motivation comes from the 'spirit' I was referring to!
A person suffering from terminal cancer diagnosed only in the final stage at the age of 26, today he is 44 - talking walking playing teaching and laughing! He is single and when asked he always says 'god is a women and she is in love with me and didn't want to share me and I am sure I will not die soon as she is still not loved me enough!'
I really think 'god is a women and is in deeply love with that guy'
Sunday, August 19, 2012
Wednesday, August 15, 2012
Mom, dad, brother and me!
Yeah one big (big in terms of the size of people!! Including me all well above their limits) happy family!! Probably it's the same story everywhere but I like to believe mine is as unique as it can get - a supercool dad with whom u can discuss your first love, a conservative but protective mom who protects you from the blazing rage of an angry dad (at times when you are wrong), a brother who fights with you to decide who bats first and at times teams up with you to get permission for a movie during exam time!
So yes I do have a unique and loving family which may be very envious to a lot of people in the world!
Today i sit out in the open, with cool wind in my hair! Enjoying the lovely weather of my beautiful hometown of Kochi! Sadly out in open is outside the multi-specialty hospital! Dad had a cerebral hemmarage a couple of days back! He is out of danger and is recovering well and is out of the ICU as well. If not reached in time could have culminated in paralytic stroke! God at times gives people enormous amount strength and courage which is usually absent or is assumed absent! That's what happened to my mother and that's what saved my dad! Both my brother and I don't stay in kochi! It was all mom and god! She handled it the best way possible! Anyways what this did (I assume may be too early) is that it brought close a pack of cards which was lying scattered - career, wife kids and health and spirituality and all that creeps in to push each other out and struggle for complete dominance! Seldom we realize that all this can go hand in hand! But if we knew life would have been so boring!
Relationships are something which one needs to work upon ('cliché' I know) but what we forget is we can work with it as well! One's gain may not necessarily mean other's loss!
A son suddenly becomes not just a son, or just a brother or just a husband! He becomes all of them and then starts the fun!
A son becomes a crawling kid, a rebellious teenager, a spendthrift working bachelor!
A caring parent, an over interfering parent, a paranoid parent, an expecting parent!
Sometimes it feels an overtly overwhelming complication that needs to be tackled! (surprising that I am phrasing it with words like tackle and complication! Words that are scripted by the brain though would prefer those from the heart for a subject like this one!) and tackled rightly giving due importance and priority!
I don't think a set rule or a golden rule will suffice as there is none right now! Probably one gets better at this as he lives his life and learns to behave or develops a behavior. Hence I believe behavior is an art and it's no science!
An art that paints a beautiful picture that calls itself life in which dad, mom, brother and me are happy at each of our last scene!
:)
So yes I do have a unique and loving family which may be very envious to a lot of people in the world!
Today i sit out in the open, with cool wind in my hair! Enjoying the lovely weather of my beautiful hometown of Kochi! Sadly out in open is outside the multi-specialty hospital! Dad had a cerebral hemmarage a couple of days back! He is out of danger and is recovering well and is out of the ICU as well. If not reached in time could have culminated in paralytic stroke! God at times gives people enormous amount strength and courage which is usually absent or is assumed absent! That's what happened to my mother and that's what saved my dad! Both my brother and I don't stay in kochi! It was all mom and god! She handled it the best way possible! Anyways what this did (I assume may be too early) is that it brought close a pack of cards which was lying scattered - career, wife kids and health and spirituality and all that creeps in to push each other out and struggle for complete dominance! Seldom we realize that all this can go hand in hand! But if we knew life would have been so boring!
Relationships are something which one needs to work upon ('cliché' I know) but what we forget is we can work with it as well! One's gain may not necessarily mean other's loss!
A son suddenly becomes not just a son, or just a brother or just a husband! He becomes all of them and then starts the fun!
A son becomes a crawling kid, a rebellious teenager, a spendthrift working bachelor!
A caring parent, an over interfering parent, a paranoid parent, an expecting parent!
Sometimes it feels an overtly overwhelming complication that needs to be tackled! (surprising that I am phrasing it with words like tackle and complication! Words that are scripted by the brain though would prefer those from the heart for a subject like this one!) and tackled rightly giving due importance and priority!
I don't think a set rule or a golden rule will suffice as there is none right now! Probably one gets better at this as he lives his life and learns to behave or develops a behavior. Hence I believe behavior is an art and it's no science!
An art that paints a beautiful picture that calls itself life in which dad, mom, brother and me are happy at each of our last scene!
:)
Monday, August 6, 2012
Pick up lines are overrated!
More than a zillion times I have rehearsed many wonderful (in my head atleast) pick up lines. in my cases its more often pick up paragraphs! recently i was in a very popular stores in GK-2 (24/7) to buy some eateries and there stood a very beautiful girl at the counter! in my hand was a pack Bournvita Lil Champs (yeah! yeah! i know its for kids.. i was impressed by the ad so picked it up out curiosity to just get the feel of the pack!) anyways.. immediately a really nice approach struck me! (for those who haven't seen the ad here is the link - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=26W_seEWd7w ) lil champs talks about the growth of brain within the first 4 - 5 years and thats why bournvita lil champs is important! anyways.. the pick para was as follows : - " hi! der! just wanted to confirm if you have seen the new bournvita lil champs ad! cos if you haven't you may not have realized why am i taking this pack! it says brain is developed within the age of 4-5! and i guess mine didn't cos i really cannot work my brain to cook up an interesting conversation with you to convince you to have a coffee with me! so i decided to pick up a pack and see if it improves! i mean my brain! and see.. just picked up the pack and i am here explaining it to you but boring you to death! "
seemed like a nice para! but by the time i rephrased and rehearsed and became confident .. no trace of her in the store! damn it!
anyways. i have always wondered why is it hard for me to take that final plunge and see if these cheesy lines are actually something that works!
so then do they actually work? the whole concept of first impression is critical and how is it that a nice pick up line(the phrase pick up line itself is sooooo cheesy and demeaning) going to work for you?
i guess these days the women are more mature and smart to identify the threats of what happens after the pick up line! and i guess it is more assumed that those approaching with these cheesy lines are infact better stayed away from!
so obviously these line are overrated! so no love lost that i couldn't work up a good pick up para in time!
:)
seemed like a nice para! but by the time i rephrased and rehearsed and became confident .. no trace of her in the store! damn it!
anyways. i have always wondered why is it hard for me to take that final plunge and see if these cheesy lines are actually something that works!
so then do they actually work? the whole concept of first impression is critical and how is it that a nice pick up line(the phrase pick up line itself is sooooo cheesy and demeaning) going to work for you?
i guess these days the women are more mature and smart to identify the threats of what happens after the pick up line! and i guess it is more assumed that those approaching with these cheesy lines are infact better stayed away from!
so obviously these line are overrated! so no love lost that i couldn't work up a good pick up para in time!
:)
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