Jab we Met!!

The title definitely suggests a love story!! today it was on TV and there i was watching!!! and cometh the scene where he burns and flushes down his ex's photo! got inspired and decided it was high time to let go!! and move on! so i take up all the paper gifts and burn em!! thought i would feel bad!! but actually it did help!! cos more than the gift burning, it i guess, symbolizes the small hope i was nurturing in my heart of a chance!! anyways as i was burning it down.. but i guess there was this one last hope that she might come back!! and BaaM!! squashed it heard that she is getting married.. but for once i feel light!! i don't have to forcefully look away from the compartment of the closet where it was kept!!

certain things however kiddish it seems and stupid it may look to another person, it does serve the purpose!

amazing .. was therefore planning to write a book on 'how to get over a break up.. esp. when u are the one dumped' 

certainly this 'jab we met' burning will be in the crash course chapter probably as a must do!!

what else.... ahemmmm emmmmm??? go to places strategically important during the time u wer dating.. so many times with several people.. as if u are pushing the memories of u and her in that place so far down that u will not remember the date.. yeah u will remember u were der but when, why, what did you do?? naah!! human mind is constrained of space so yes some memory location needs to be over written..so facilitate the brain to choose those memories to overwrite!!

once you have overwritten those memory spaces.. you would realize that the memory space or the compartment in the brain named 'love' has a dangling pointer (c++ kisi ko pata hain?)  is sparking off un inhabited memory spaces with references to that person.. this i am afraid will continue till you find a replacement.. now don't get all 'idealistic' and worked up.. how can it be a replacement.. it is a replacement.. in plain simple words.. automatically situations where u had missed being in a relationship will have a new character to satisfy!! now this needn't be a new lover... a passion which u let go cos of her.. ;p.. a friend.. your parents you became close now since you could spent more time with them and with undivided attention.. it could be also a new lover.. and nothing is better than the other.. or worse than the other (last 2 sentences meant the same) but yeah .. who cares the readers of my book will be too involved to realize as they are desperate to get over!!

some people also say sex.. is a good way  to get over.. but i feel it also forms a part of the erasing of existing memory of sex with new ones.. so is covered.. but yeah if he was a virgin .. dude.. be happy you are not a  'poor guy' anymore and enjoy that better!! and definitely in this case sex does help..

 you will also be surprised to know that all those memories would probably be of a dinner or a early morning breakfast or a kiss or a moment of uncontrollable passion... see whats common??? the basic need!!! food and believe it or not the physical companionship... yeah .. u r right i am being cynical here...bull shit!!! you will enjoy a good dinner in the sample place irrespective of your company.. just try and remember the conversation you had over dinner?? nah!!i bet you will remember the dish u enjoyed!! ok there is an exception in this rule.. unless it is like a important date like u proposing or giving a ring etc.. but as we all know exceptions are not rules. And when it comes to a kiss .. comeon who are u kidding.. everyone enjoys a good kiss... and yeah sex.. please i don't even want to get started with this..if u don't enjoy it either something wrong with u (u r gay!!) or something wrong with the companion.. (again ur stupid mistake of choice)
so everything does revolve around till you let it!! everything and everyone is replaceable.. yeah except your parents!!
i just realized my book doesn't have much content beyond this blog?? what to do??? i can narrate a story and make my readers understand?? that will fill up a good amount of my pages.. my friends would agree .. my stories can fill up zillion pages.. as i digress to the minutest detail... but that's my style.. so let me rush to a new word document.. "how to get over a break up (s)..!!.docx" included the '(s)' some of my reader may be in deeper shit!!!
wait up will publish it .. and will send a copy to u all!!